Olinda Chapel: Dear Ngoni

Don’t lose your home because of that.

You cannot prevent your wife from seeing handsome men. It will take the grace of God for her not to cheat but if it happens, just understand that she is only human. Forgive your wife and don’t let the strange man win.

The strange man is out to ruin your home. Strange men are agents of the devil. Don’t lose your wife to him. Hold your wife’s hands and pray the strange man out of your marriage. A wise man builds his home.

Love your wife like never before during those times. Make love to her more often so she can quickly forget about the other man.

Fight for your marriage, oh virtuous man.

Fight for your wife.

Fight on your knees in the war room.

Intercede for your marriage.

If you lose your wife, it is the other man who will end up winning.

Don’t let another man take your place.

Guard your home, oh virtuous man.

And oh virtuous man, once the strange man is out, never bring up the issue again.

Forgive and forget about the issue.

Now, if your wife has the habit of sleeping with different men, it is most likely because there is something you are not giving her at home. It is most likely because you have failed in some responsibilities as a man.

Sit down and think about why your wife is straying.

Do you watch her favorite movies with her?

Do you dress well and smell nice for her?

Strange men of this world know how to do these things.

Give your wife what she needs and please, don’t stop praying for her.

Don’t lose your home because she is cheating.

Intercede for your marriage and meet her needs.

With time, she will change.

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How does this sound to you?

Annoying, right?

Yes, it is.

That is what many women are told.

Stop preaching such trash to women.

Sleeping around has no place in a marriage.

If you are a man or woman who sleeps around, you need to change your ways.

It is not only the woman who should be faithful; the same applies to the man.